Couples Use ChatGPT to Resolve Conflicts Today.
People are using ChatGPT to argue, go out, and now also to "win" discussions with their partners.
In the realm of romantic relationships, an unusual use of tools like ChatGPT has started to emerge. People are now turning to these platforms not just for flirting or dating but also to "win" arguments with their partners. A Reddit user shared his experience, mentioning that his girlfriend uses ChatGPT every time they have a disagreement. Through the AITA ("Am I The Asshole") forum, the 25-year-old expressed his concern about this dynamic, as his partner, 28, seeks answers from the AI even when they are in the same room.
According to his account, she returns to discussions with viewpoints provided by the artificial intelligence. At times, she claims that ChatGPT has made her believe that her boyfriend is insecure or lacks the emotional capacity to understand her perspective. The user argues that the problem lies in the fact that she formulates the questions, meaning that the AI could be validating her opinion without giving him the opportunity to present his side of the story.
Although the veracity of this story has not been confirmed, it reflects a current trend in interpersonal communication. The difficulty in handling conflicts, especially in disagreement situations, may be related to a lack of role models in resolving such scenarios. This is especially relevant for younger generations who, due to the pandemic, saw their face-to-face social interaction restricted.
During the lockdown, many young people, including those from Generation Z, admitted to lacking experience in the dating sphere, which has created a dependency on digital communication. While it is not unusual for someone to seek external help, such as that offered by a chatbot, it is concerning that a person cannot handle a disagreement without resorting to technology. Some comments in the thread suggested that even ChatGPT does not recommend this type of intervention, emphasizing that artificial intelligence should not replace human interactions.
Hopefully, this Reddit user will not rely on ChatGPT to write a breakup message if he finds himself in that situation.
